如果你听到有人说你的坏话,你不要为自己辩护,反而要说:“他显然不太了解我,因为我还有许多别的毛病他没有提到。” ——爱比克泰德
If you hear that someone is speaking ill of you, instead of trying to defend yourself, you should say: “He obviously does not know me very well, since there are so many other faults he could have mentioned.” ——Epictetus
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